Sunday, April 19, 2009

Eve Teasing: Time to wake up!!

We suffered,but we remain silent,may be the reasons were different but the pain was the same.Girls let it happen just because they think that their aggression might cost them heavily (can lead a normal misbehave to a rape attempt).Some of us think its embarrasing to let people know about things they suffer often ( like non-tolerable abuses-comments,physical abusing as bottom pinching,breast grabbing and rather more humiliating attempts are cosidered in eve teasing)and this category of preys involves age group of 6-65 years.Just imagine the indecency of milieu around us.The obvious reasons also includes the attitude of the female who found it futile to file a complain,because they know the consequences so far.Is n't this shows that how much "For-Granted" attitude,this male-dominant society keep for women.A women even if she belong to a high status and even she is a liberal independent one of this era,yet she have to face the same problems as one from totally different background faces.It doesn't mater whether she is walking in a road,praying in a temple,having lunch in restraunt,travelling in buses or trains; she bound to face these problems .As it beacame part of her living.Every womem would agree with me at this point,that they come across similar situations if not daily thenm on alternate basisWhenever I contemplate over this issue,the only question in my mind arises is "Why only female were expected to take measures in this context of the problem, why not men are bound to contribute their assistance to eradicate this social evil?",This issue is might be apart of women emancipation,But in realty its a big evil of the society to deal with.So on this note I doesn't only want my sisters to join hand with me,but also call upon my brothers to atleast think over this.Ergo for all the WOMEN who are expecting for some renaissance in field of prevention of female humiliation.This is for them:
"Life is like Froth and Bubble,
Two things stand like Stone;
Kindness in other's trouble,
Courage in your own."
-Mrinal Bhattacharya

18 comments:

  1. I don't agree with this statement of yours: "Why only female were expected to take measures in this context of the problem, why not men are bound to contribute their assistance to eradicate this social evil?" There are men who are assisting to eradicate this social evil but as you mentioned the no. of them is very less and unless the females themselves become courageous enough, nothing can be done!

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  2. @nimit
    well this article is not to hurt particularly any1..justwant to make people realise wat women went through when smthng like wat i mentioned is encountered by us.........and..if ur talking about male assistance...as u urself said..that the no. is very less...and to change this consisitency of being less in no. till date....this article is for them only....and in ur comment on being courageous so on personal grounds..want to say..that walking on street alone itself for a girl is very brave....(even if she is a martial art expert

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  3. @Mrinal: If you think walking on the street alone is courageous then believe me NOTHING can be done! If you want to change the system then THINK BIG and ACT accordingly!

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  4. @nimit:Well on ur note just want to say...that it becomes routine..to suffer..protest or...about thinking big and acting accordingly..who knows better than we people..that small attempt or big we initiate both..but consequences are heavy to bear...any ways if its ur perception ..i do respect u in that context for showing such trust in women power...hope u do contribute in ur ambiance as well to eradicate it upto a certain level...cozz cmplte elimination is beyond imagination...

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  5. @Mrinal: Definitely I'll try me level best to eradicate this evil.

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  6. @nimit: I do expect the same from others as well...and I really appreciate the way u think

    @gunvant:KUCH SEEKH>>>>

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  7. @Mrinal: No I am not a social worker :P

    @Gunvant: Aankhe hain ya button, dikhaayi nahi deta ki kya chal rha hai :P

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  8. @nimit:please i didn't tagged u as social worker.....even not want u to be the 1..........hey bhagwaan....galti ho gyi....

    @gunvant:completely agreed with nimit...."dikhayi nahi deta ki kyaa chal raha hai" :P

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  9. @one who cannot make difference: Good that you admitted your mistake but without saying sorry :P

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  10. @nimit(who can't think big but expect the same from other and do underestimate the ppl around):I did admit the thing that with any argument am really not able to mk sm1 a social worker who have such mind set..that if some1 is initiating to even comtemplate abt the society inplace of encouraging..them..ppl are more interested in de-moralising them...and if u expect a SORRY....then i do want a reason for that....infact,,,,i dnt understd y r u stretching the whole thing...i dnt hv any personal grudges with...u....and if u really thnk..i made a mistake...owe me a reason...am ready to utter the word...fine...
    Thank u...

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  11. dono ke paas aur koi kaam nhian bacha kya ???

    @mrinal : stop behaving kiddish !!

    @nimit: i completly agree with mrinal stop stretching !!! :P

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  12. @Gunvant: STOP being KABAB MAIN HADDI :P :P

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  13. @Gunvant:AM not a kid..stop pampering me...[:P]

    @Gunvant & Nimit:Both of u please stop it...

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  14. @Mrinal: OK... I promise now onwards I wont post any comments on your blog.

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  15. @nimit:offo i was just kidding idiot...i mean y only this article..i guess other1 are very monotonous or wat..and yup we r only stretching the things...in it...regardlessly..i really didn't meant that..ilove to hear crticization..go on...

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  16. @nimit:so think big n act accordingly,few men trying to eradicate n blah blah blah....
    i really didnt think of bringing this topic but thanks to mrinal for this opportuniy.ye sab bolne ki baaten hain pehli baat to ki aadmi log kuch karte hain,sab situation pe depend karta hai.sabse pehle ladke hi haath utha lete hain,ladki ko aksar sab kuch akele jhelna padta n doesnt maater ki wo aapki frnd hai ya gf ya fir koi anjaan(m not including sisters coz they're some different species for guys).n i dont think i need to give an example to prove this,a lot happens like this.

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  17. @nimit:aur jahan tak courage ki baat hai,ladki ki aadhi band to tabhi baj jaati hai jab use dikhta hai ki kisi ladke k saath hote hue bhi wo safe nahin hai,uske saath ye sab ho sakta hai fir akele chalna sunsaan kya bheed bhare raaste mein bhi zindgi maut k khel se kam nahin hai.sirf wahi jaante hain jo isse guzarte hain,wo nahin jo sirf think big n act accordingly bolte hain.

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